Sunday, January 31, 2010

Marriage Messages Food The Problems In My Marriage Are Fueling My Eating Disorder And I Just Can't Get Over It...?

The problems in my marriage are fueling my eating disorder and I just can't get over it...? - marriage messages food

I struggled with bulimia for about a year now, my problems with my marriage license. For a 1 / 2 months, things are a little better between us. I can not do all the things that he in the past I've seen so many sad memories, and I can not help but wonder now if you can not hide from me things better, in their profiles on all websites and their friends, Chat, etc., spend some time together, the world revolves around the car and 2 motorcycles, money, work for themselves and so on. The first is what he does when he comes home, turn off the computer and check your messages. I'm frustrated, our sex life is almost gone, he went 7 months without touching me, no matter how he showed he could wait no longer. I was almost raped man Smth. him. I'm tired of this, I'm only 20 and he is 35.I Clean and cook the food very good, I'll do anything, what should a good woman do.what is wrong with this picture?

10 comments:

CateCart... said...

What image is that they be strengthened and not take responsibility for their actions, but uses the marriage as a scapegoat in order to continue destructive behavior. That is wrong. I understand that you're young, but you are responsible for your decisions. Or, or do you, but either way, is a choice. Is that what you decide. Stop looking for her husband to meet you. You need to find happiness in you. It comes from an internal source, not an external source. Pull yourself up by your boot straps, get a life, proud of themselves, and the control of who you are ...... to do all this, and I promise you, you will see a change in her husband. Good luck to you!

lsisto12 said...

Unfortunately, it seems that things will never change. is not worth eating disorder. if not also help or want to talk to you, you are given an ultimatum. If he is hiding things that are hidden and still like the sound was what he can do better. His young and could be so much better to do! Good luck.

hsmommy0... said...

Something wrong with this picture. You need to start going to counseling and get help for her eating disorder when you insure your marriage, want to work or break what I can tell you, no doubt, after a while your eating disorder will disappear. It can also be caused by stress.

Suzie Q said...

Sounds like it's only because the use of wouldnt be 35yrs old having sex in suffering, but it seems that you are going to provide for itself that he is young to have such problems in his marriage, his slave, takes his Women for your health, please

Amarante said...

Council need or time for yourself

The Sexecutioner said...

If you are an action that would love to bone.

luvliste... said...

You have to help to treat their eating disorder not only damaging to the body, but your marriage will suffer even more. Everything they do to your body reaches the stomach wrong and then discard it to the esophagus and damage the teeth and then everything you put in your mouth, you will weight because the body needs fuel to function properly, if not always, each fuel, then your body will be closed and get a bag of bones and looking like an old woman. Please get help for her eating disorder and then work on their marriage.

Love to Love said...

1. Simply because the fuel that it does not mean that you must complete On It!
2. Take responsibility for your feelings and actions, and realizes that he is the only power over you
3. If you do not, or not (probably) to get over it, stop punishing, as I as
4. You can not force someone to treat you how you want to be treated yourself, but you can even make your way to the treatment they deserve to be around.
5. What is it about this picture does not ask
6. They have a life expectancy which he disagrees, and his perspective on how things should be different from yours and you are not faithful to itself, because it has the value of love, the love of you.

Nena S said...

You sound like a good woman ... I ask you to go to therapy or counseling. Really.

Life is too short to be unhappy. And we can make others .... We do not accept or change.

It seems to me that you ... but do not love you. Sorry. You need to realize the facts in the face and you lose valuable time on a man who is not the case.
The sooner you realize you have a lot to offer, that is its weight in gold, the better.

Go seek professional help. I'm not kidding.
You need to work harder, and for their problems.

Letting go is never easy, but sometimes the best we can do. Toxic relationships on the one side does not have or secure.

I think it is a co-dependent, and that is something that we can not ignore.

You are the person who needs the help, if you think this will change, because it does not. And if you've tried everything to please him, but not respect you, and shows no signs of Wanting to improve in this marriage, what do you need? A sign from God?

God does not want us unhappy. He loves us and wants us to be happy.

Good luck. You deserve to be happy and to a man who loves and respects your page to have.

Julie said...

Him.
If the problems are so bad that makes you mentally ill (as in bulimia nervosa), then you should leave this relationship. Seriously. Not good for you. It is not good for you.

EDIT: I have your questions and your blog. It makes me very sad that you so trapped in a relationship. You deserve to be happy! Please read the result of this man - it's someone who judges us, and I love you so much better!

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